Loving Someone with ADHD without Resentment is Possible

Learn to navigate how ADHD affects you so that you can rebuild trust and bring back the love you felt in the beginning

Apply For Relationship Coaching from PhD. Psychologist Dr. Claire and Coach Tom with a 15-Minute Personal Call To Start

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We'll help you navigate how ADHD affects relationships and to understand the confusion...

...so you can rebuild trust and bring back the love you felt in the beginning

Take 5-Weeks Of Mentoring & Coaching To Improve Your Intimate Relationships based on our Relationship Triangle Model™.

5-Weeks Of Psychologist-level Coaching

Hear from others in similar situations

Discounted Ticket for Future Programs

For partners without ADHD

What Our Clients Are Saying

My name is Dr. Claire Sira, I’m one of the founders of Boss Of Your Brain Inc. and a leading PhD expert in Clinical Neuropsychology...

...specifically brain trauma in relation to executive functioning which includes plenty of peer-reviewed anatomical insights into how the ADHD brain is different to the average person's.

Who Are We?

Growing up I felt ‘I was too much but never enough’, getting top grades at school but always in detention. My work was always to a high standard, yet always stressful and in the perfectionism mindset.

Despite graduating into my dream hospital job, I couldn’t track all the details - truthfully. It was in 2011, at the age of 41, I first received a diagnosis and treatment for ADHD.

This firsthand experience of acknowledging, understanding, then accepting ADHD was life changing.

By working with it from a place of spiritual compassion combined with scientific insight, I permanently upgraded my relationship with myself, the world, my relationships, and my career.

I’ve since helped countless clients overcome the ADHD turbulence in their life and we are all thriving...

...especially in the wake of remote working, to the point I can no longer keep up with the demand from both local patients and fellow medical professionals internationally who want to better serve their own patients.

That’s why I started this coaching program...

...to help those affected by ADHD access accurate information about their symptoms and experiences from anywhere in the world.

It gives me huge pleasure to share the tools which I personally use to thrive with such a wide variety of people.

Hi, I'm Tom Hudock. I’m the other founder of BOYB…

Basically, I’m a pretty creative-minded guy who loves starting projects and working with fun and interesting people. Like many of you, my personal relationships are important, especially with my life partner and son.

I realize a lot of people are in similar positions. They’re wanting to apable and hardworking, but without a supportive, empathetic framework that suits their ADHD traits, they can’t fulfil their potential…

…like many of you, I was never understood by my own family growing up and they were worried I’d achieve nothing because I was constantly jumping around.

So when I met Dr. Claire, our ideas got flowing and we saw the opportunity to combine our personal experiences of medicine, management, and ADHD to help people get out of their own way and add as much value to their own lives as possible, and in turn, the world.

Triangle Learning Model

The psychology behind the layered approach to learning.

Watch and learn about the problem on a scientific level and repeat as often as you like.

Learn quicker by doing. With the worksheets created by Dr. Claire Sira, you get more repetitions in for practicing new skills.

Attend the coaching calls to ask clarifying questions from the experts and soak up the evidence-based nuggets of knowledge.

Loving Someone with ADHD (LSA) Group Coaching

We deliver this framework through a 9-unit group coaching program that educates and empowers you to positively improve your understanding of your partner's ADHD, and how to best live with it in a supportive, safe space free from pressure and judgement…all under the expert guidance of top level, highly experienced specialists who know exactly what you’re going through.

Loving Someone with ADHD distils the problems of ADHD relationships into 3 main sections - confusion, constant arguing, and anger/resentment - which are further divided into 3 sub sections.

Over the 9-unit course, we look at why and how ADHD has been affecting your life through this triangle model and spend each week showing you how to incorporate each subsection into your life to proactively manage your boundaries and needs before the resentment takes over.

What You Get

5-WEEKS OF LIVE COACHING AND VIDEO EDUCATIONAL PROGRAM

5-week program with two experts in ADHD

Weekly 1.5 hr Coaching Calls With Dr. Claire & Tom

Discounted Ticket for future programs

Schedule this free call below (no card info required) to find out how LSA group coaching can help you

P.S. ADHD is a complex, confusing syndrome which affects people in uniquely challenging ways, so even if LSA isn’t for you, we would still love to advise you (for free) on your best move forward - the good thing is you’ve taken an extremely brave step to get the guidance you need and we respect you massively for it - let’s get you on the right track, whatever that maybe.

OR [sign up here] if you want to skip the call and secure a spot before someone else takes it.

Who's It For:

Adults coming to terms with their partner's ADHD for the first time.

Adults already familiar with their partner's ADHD and want to learn ways to improve their intimate relationships.

Who It's NOT For:

Those not willing to put in the time and effort to make their relationship better. This isn't for those unwilling to step forward to be curious and self reflective. Change doesn't simply happen from watching inspirational social media posts.

Have any questions?

FAQs

Does my partner need to be diagnosed or be on medication for this to be helpful?

Your ADHD partner doesn't need to be formally diagnosed or be on medication for this program to help. They may identify with having ADHD traits of being easily overwhelmed, distracted, and procrastinating. But this program is to help you, the non-ADHD partner, work with and understand better the lack of attention control and weak executive functioning skills your partner may exhibit.

How do I know this program works?

Your ADHD partner doesn't need to be formally diagnosed or be on medication for this program to help. They may identify with having ADHD traits of being easily overwhelmed, distracted, and procrastinating. But this program is to help you, the non-ADHD partner, work with and understand better the lack of attention control and weak executive functioning skills your partner may exhibit.

I don’t know if I have enough time for this. What is the time commitment?

We want you to find this super helpful so we’ve scheduled the group sessions in the evening. Hopefully to give you enough time to deal with dinner and transfer the kids to your partner’s care so you can have uninterrupted time. If you don’t think you can put 90-120 minutes per week into growing yourself and self care activities, this course may not be for you.

What if I don't like the program or Claire or Tom?

That's possible. Unlikely, but possible. And if this isn't for you after you start the program and give it a chance for 2 weeks, then with "No-Questions-Asked", you'll get a full refund. And we can still be friends after.